It’s been a while since I’ve disagreed, so you’ve got one today. Pinterest is full of inspiration. If you want to be told a certain thing, there’s a pretty quote and picture to fit the bill.
While this quote may connect with some, I am not one of them. At this point in my life I would rather wait to date someone I can connect with, versus fill time with someone who isn’t right for me. This doesn’t mean I have a super serious checklist and won’t go out until someone has filled all the boxes. In reality there is no checklist. It is more about the feeling. I want to be with someone who makes me feel safe, secure and less stressed.
This also doesn’t mean I’m sitting at home, waiting for things to happen. Instead it means I’m out doing what I want, when I want. Hopefully sometime while I’m out with friends I’ll find the person that is meant to be my more than friend. This also means that I am a huge proponent of “the more the merrier” you never know who might be just around the corner.
Did you find your person by waiting? Or were you a “sample all the flavors” dater? No judgement either way of course!